This would be a case of doing the right thing.
Not because you’re a wonderful exceptional man, but because you are a Man.
So when you don’t complain about the garbage, the late or nonexistent dinners, what have you become? A just and responsible human being. Not something special. Simply the Dad, Lover, Husband that is just & fair. This should be normal behavior (taking the kids out, making dinner without whining) for a full grown man. Not… an especially wonderful boy.